Many people not only want to please themselves but also their friends and family, and there’s the rub. As you implied, those closest to you want what’s best for you in their eyes — their definition of success even though they are not successful themselves. Change is doubly hard when you know you have to change and want to do so, but you need to fight the headwinds of loved ones who cramp your style because they know best. Change is a gutsy call in many ways, and your perseverance and resilience after cutting loose will be the deciding factors.

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